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The Emotional Cost of Leaving Malaysia

When people talk about migration, they often talk about opportunities. They talk about better education, better systems, and a better future. The narrative is usually optimistic, forward-looking, almost practical. Few people talk about what migration costs emotionally, especially when you leave not alone, but as a mother. I did not leave Malaysia as a young,… Continue reading
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Raising Malaysian Children in London: A Mum’s Quiet Story

London is loud, but motherhood here feels strangely quiet. In the mornings, I walk my youngest child to school under grey skies, while my eldest lives a completely different life at university; independent, distant, growing in ways I can’t fully see anymore. After 11 years of living in London, raising one child and now two,… Continue reading
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Migrating to the UK: What You Need to Know

Moving abroad can be a thrilling yet daunting experience. If you’re planning to migrate to the UK, you’re likely wondering about the challenges, costs, and what life will look like on the other side. Here’s a guide to help you prepare for the journey, avoid surprises, and make the most of your new life in… Continue reading
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Our Cost of Living in London as a Family of Four

I often get asked about how much one should earn to justify migrating to the UK. My answer is: it depends on one’s circumstance. Every person has different wants and needs. And the cost of renting in different parts of the UK, heck even London, differs. As an example, here’s our (approximate) monthly spendings: Rent… Continue reading