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The Emotional Cost of Leaving Malaysia

When people talk about migration, they often talk about opportunities. They talk about better education, better systems, and a better future. The narrative is usually optimistic, forward-looking, almost practical. Few people talk about what migration costs emotionally, especially when you leave not alone, but as a mother. I did not leave Malaysia as a young,… Continue reading
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Raising Malaysian Children in London: A Mum’s Quiet Story

London is loud, but motherhood here feels strangely quiet. In the mornings, I walk my youngest child to school under grey skies, while my eldest lives a completely different life at university; independent, distant, growing in ways I can’t fully see anymore. After 11 years of living in London, raising one child and now two,… Continue reading
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Iceland Travel Guide: Review and Tips

Iceland feels like another planet. From roaring waterfalls and glaciers to black sand beaches and endless empty roads, it is one of the most dramatic and beautiful countries we have ever visited. We travelled to Iceland in 2015, just the three of us then, on our way to Oxford for Irwan’s MBA graduation. We debated… Continue reading
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The Ultimate 4-5 Days London Itinerary and Local Tips

London is a city that never stops surprising me, even after nearly a decade of calling it home. Its blend of history, culture, and vibrant modern life makes it one of the most dynamic destinations in the world. Whether you’re here for the iconic landmarks, world-class museums, charming neighbourhoods, or the incredible food scene, London… Continue reading
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Migrating to the UK: What You Need to Know

Moving abroad can be a thrilling yet daunting experience. If you’re planning to migrate to the UK, you’re likely wondering about the challenges, costs, and what life will look like on the other side. Here’s a guide to help you prepare for the journey, avoid surprises, and make the most of your new life in… Continue reading
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Our Cost of Living in London as a Family of Four

I often get asked about how much one should earn to justify migrating to the UK. My answer is: it depends on one’s circumstance. Every person has different wants and needs. And the cost of renting in different parts of the UK, heck even London, differs. As an example, here’s our (approximate) monthly spendings: Rent… Continue reading
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Recipe: Cantonese-Style Lobster with Ginger and Scallions

If you have ever had the privilege of attending a 10-course Chinese wedding banquet meal, you know what Cantonese ginger scallion lobster looks and tastes like. It is one of my favourite courses at a Chinese banquet, and one of the best ways to enjoy fresh lobster. I learnt to make the dish a few years back and… Continue reading
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Visiting Puglia with Kids

Puglia (pronounced “pool-ya”), or Apulia (its lesser common Latin name), is located in Italy’s southern-eastern region, an area known for its abundant countryside and olive trees and a gentler pace of life. An area of two coasts, its eastern shore gazes at the Adriatic Sea, while the west coast fades into the Ionian Sea. With its… Continue reading
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Recipe: Kuih Seri Muka

Seri Muka is a Malaysian dessert consisting of two layers. The custard layer is infused with pandan extract and it sits on coconut milk flavoured glutinous rice base. In almost all Malay and Peranakan kuih, the most common flavouring ingredients are grated coconut, coconut milk, pandan (screwpine) leaves, and gula melaka (palm sugar). While they… Continue reading
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Marrakech Travel Guide: Review and Tips

Almost nowhere in Morocco is tourism as strong as in Marrakech. Despite soaring to the top of the world’s bucket list in recent years, Marrakech has retained so much of its own character. It is a fabulous city, full of intrigue and wonder, but it is chaotic and can be intimidating when you visit for… Continue reading